Let them go!

All of us have encountered at least one such person in our life who was really special for us before they turned into complete strangers. It could be a special relation or just a dear friend. We feel like they have just turned their backs and left us broken. We feel that we are in this dark place from where we will never come out. We try to go back to them, plead them, but suddenly they have turned into stone – nothing works.

I know it is really a difficult time and any advice given just feels like nonsense. But pause. And think. There are more than 7.5 Billion people on Earth and we are still stuck with this one – who doesn’t even acknowledge your presence anymore. Is it really worth losing your self respect and your time?

We all are under this false sense of security that we will wake up tomorrow. We all end up wasting our time and energy over things which doesn’t even matter. Spending so much time and energy for this person – is it really worth?

Focus on yourself!

May be that person is actually worth it, maybe not! But I am pretty sure, more often than not, it is better to move on. If you really matter to her/him, she/he will definitely come back. Why not spend your time doing something worthwhile in the meantime?

Go out with your friends, learn something new, meditate, travel, go on a vacation, meet new people, help someone, concentrate on things that really matter to you right now – and it’s definitely not her/him. It’s time for self-development and self-love!

A lot of people become so engrossed in their past, their sorrows that they are unable to see the opportunity standing right in front of them. So just remove these dark lenses and see the now – it’s all right there for you – all that you ever wanted.

I strongly believe that life is made up of different experiences. And each of them is different. Everyday is a new day. This was just one of so many! So just keep looking forward to more these amazing experiences, keep looking forward to life. You never know when things might just click for you.

In the meantime, full concentrate on yourself – the single most important person in your life who matters the most!

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Stop Judging…. Yourself!

“Oh, it’s not really his fault”, “It’s ok buddy no worries” or “That’s alright. I completely understand why you did what you did”.

We all have said this to a lot of people. We all have forgiven other people for their mistakes, for the hurt that they have caused us. We always give other people a second chance, no matter how badly they screw up.

“Hey, you are strong enough to face this!”, “It wasn’t really your fault” or “Don’t beat yourself up so much.”

We always give such encouraging advice to others. We always try to boost their morale. We always try to make people see that they aren’t really as bad as they think they are!

But what happens to all these talks when it come to ourselves?

“Oh, I am not really that person!”, “How could I have ever done/said that?” or “I can never forgive myself for this!”

How many of us hold on to our own mistakes? How many of us still ponder on all the wrongs we think we have done? How many of us still beat ourselves every waking hour thinking we are no good?

Wake up! It’s time!

It’s time to stop beating ourselves up. It’s ok if in past we couldn’t meet the standards of who we think we are. It’s ok if we messed things us. Stop judging yourself.

Only God is perfect. And you are only Human! You are allowed to make mistakes. You are allowed to mess up things. This is how you learn!

The important thing is “what next?”. The important thing is to focus on what’s coming. Remember, the present-you is the result of what you did in the past. So the future-you will be what you do now!

So, stop running back to the mistakes and criticizing yourself. It’s time to take the corrective actions. To make the real difference.

Start by forgiving yourself, accepting yourself for who you are – this will make you feel so much light and remove all the guilt that you have been carrying around. It is the first step for changing yourself for the better. Own up your mistakes. Learn from them. Be proud of them.

Take care of your self. Take time out for things that makes you happy. Make yourself the priority. Learn to say no. Start talking to yourself, forgiving yourself and encouraging yourself like you do for others.

Put yourself first! It’s not mean. It’s not selfish. It’s called self-love. And it is the single most important thing you should really invest in. This is how you heal. And healing is necessary!

Remember, if judging others is offensive, then judging yourself is downright criminal!

Stop running the race!


This life is a race,
A race to run,
From being the strongest to the richest;
And to run, we all have begun.

You have to be the first,
Second is just a myth!
Oh you are no good,
No better than that Smith!

We keep chasing,
Chasing down the imaginary goals;
Did we ever stop and think?
In the end, what is it’s role?

Take a pause,
Take a break;
Just be where you are,
And appreciate the wake.

Make this journey worthwhile,
Not just chasing down the goals;
Yeah! after all, this is life,
Nobody has really survived!

Words are all I have

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Words are all I have,
And words are all I can give;
May it be an expression,
Or be it a piece of advice;
To act or not to, is your decision.

The meaning of my words will change for each,
Based on your perspective and experience;
What I mean to say is not what
You end up understanding;
Yet, Words are all I can give.

My actions are my own,
My reasons for them are different.
You interpret them based on your understanding,
And draw your own conclusions;
Yet, only I will know the true intentions.

My life is my own to live,
Your opinion of it may or may not
Make a difference to my living,
Your judgment of who I am is not me,
Beware, I am not who you think I am!

Some Positive Thoughts

Smile Please!

These are some quick one-line thoughts on life that I penned down. Are they philosophical? Sure, you would think it’s all philosophy. But then to me, it’s what I think and what I am trying to practice or incorporate in my life to bring in more positivity.

  1. If your journey is not joyful, the end is never going to be happy.
  2. If you keep waiting for the right time, the right person, the right thing; you’ll be waiting right till the end.
  3. Don’t let your past and future steal your present.
  4. Give your love to everyone and everything around you, but start with yourself first.
  5. Always make time to do what makes you happy, you have to do the rest anyways.
  6. Practice a hobby, a passion such that it has the power to transport you into another world.
  7. Obstacles are just temporary, you are eternal.
  8. Believe in something stronger than you, God, or some higher power. Know that it always has your back. Always.
  9. When in doubt, just do it. You will never know unless you try.
  10. Trust your gut instinct. If it feels right, it probably is.
  11. When in trouble, reach out to people around you. You might find just the right person to help you.
  12. You are bound to make mistakes and it is ok to make them, as long as it helps you grow.
  13. Stop judging people and stop judging yourself.
  14. Avoid doing things which you know will cause you harm or sadness in the end. Why put yourself through hell? Isn’t there already enough around?
  15. You cannot be happy perpetually. But accepting that you are sad is the first step towards happiness.
  16. Smile often even at the strangers, laugh out loud; we all could do with some more reasons to be happy.

Let me know what do you think? Which one resonates the most with you. Or just feel free to add any of your thoughts!

Now is the time!

Now is the time to be
Now is the time to do
Now is the time to sow
Now is the time to grow

Thoughts make you travel in time
Remembering memories sweet and divine
And to the unseen future of possibilities
Yet now is the only opportunity!

Minutes pass by unaware
And in our thoughts, we dwell
Wishing for something not there
Throwing away what is, in hell

Give now your complete focus
It is no sort of hocus pocus
Just use your present well
And no regrets you will tell

Now is the time to live
Now is the time to give
Now is the power you have
Now is the time to act!

Grounding Is Important

Such a simple and effective way to stay grounded! Can be done anywhere and anytime! Mindfulness is all it takes!

Be Inspired..!!

Grounding is THE key to emotional and energetic balance. It means that you are present in your body and firmly connected to the Earth. Grounding is especially important for people with high-sensitivity (HSP – highly sensitive people). With good grounding, you can keep your balance, be fully present in the here and now and bring in all of your spiritual gifts.

Let’s say that you are highly sensitive and that you pick up energies, emotions and even thoughts from other people. Besides that, you are dealing with your own thoughts, emotions and energies. Sounds a bit busy, doesn’t it? There are two things going on here. One: your mind, emotions and energy field are processing a lot more than they can comfortable handle. They are ‘full’ or even ‘overloaded’. Two: you cannot distinguish anymore what is yours and what is not. No wonder you feel emotional, overwhelmed and tired! Good…

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